BBW
BIG BROKEN WOMEN(BBW)
We Are Too Desperate For Approvals.
KEEP YOU TRAPPED.
YOU DONT NEED
ANYONE TO APPROVE
YOUR WORTH "
~ItumelengMonakhisi
It's funny how we always crave acceptance and approvals. We do know its unhealthy to continuously pursue people who reject us but we still do it. We seek approvals in order to hide away from who we are, we do this so that we can approve ourselves through another person's approval.
We live in a society where big is the new cool, where almost every guy is now suddenly attracted to big girls.
Why?
Is it because we got the greatest pussy? Is it because we got the warmest heart, we easy to love, smart, independent or is it because of we soo desperate for love that we accept anything that is given to us?
I Personally have seen big women buying love. Women who are stuck in a toxic relationship for the sake of fitting in. Women who would buy material things for men to not leave them. Women who get teased, abused and still act like they are happy just to keep a man. Women who
would hold back their feelings just to keep a man. Women who would randomly sleep with strangers just to feel appreciated by society.
Some men don't love us, they are just with us because we easy target. I mean it's easy to get into a big girls pants these days, she doesn't even have to know a thing about you, just your name where you live tell her shes pretty you love her belly, thighs, cellulite, and smile, tell her that she's smart, like her posts then wala she's all yours.
A lot of big girls are soo broken inside that all they need is to be told that they are beautiful and loved.
They hate what they see in the mirror just because thabo said I'm beautiful or I got 1000 likes for posting my nudes now I can act like I'm one happy big girl who doesn't give a fuck.
How about we start to reflect and showmen who think we need them that we can do it on our own .. And we actually deserve that shopping spree, vacation roses, and random ewallets ... Not us taking men out sending them money buying them stuff just for them to be with us
It's ok to be single that doesn't make you less of a woman and if you have that special man that genuinely appreciates you. Show him what big girls are made of.
The greatest gift from people who don't approve of us is a more defined idea of who we are and who we choose to be.
If we continue to challenge who we are for approvals we will continuously keep on loosing ourselves.
The approval i need is my own.
Is not about men, is not about women ,is not even about being big.
It's about me the world and my naked body.
Its about learning to recognise the bars so that i can cut through before they even crush me.
So that i can create a better definition of worth.
