ONE-SIDED LOVE

                                      ONE-SIDED LOVE ❤


Having feelings is a blessing for from God.

But sometimes these emotions can bring you soo much pain.
have you ever loved someone soo bad that you would do anything just to be with them? but also fail to find a valid reason why you love them, well I have.

I once dated a guy who loved me wholeheartedly and I didn't feel the same way about him the only thing that made me stay in the relationship was the fact that I knew how to manipulate him and I knew he would do whatever it takes just to make me happy. I got tired of using him and I felt that he deserved someone who was gonna love him back. At that point, I didn't feel guilty at all I mean I didn't even feel anything for anyone.
I was just living my life in my own terms, and dating for me was soo easy coz I dated guys for my own benefits.

There were some points in my life where I felt empty but I didn't really pay attention to that, coz I only paid attention to the things that boosted my ego.

Not everyone is lucky to be loved by the ones they fall for.we always fall for people who don't love us back .the same beautiful feeling of love can also make you feel miserable, one-sided love is never easy. 
I'm sure you guys are wondering why is she writing about this while she was the one who was selfish.,well, karma dealt with me and I and he are now good friends now.

One-sided love is never easy, it puts you in grief all the time because your heart keeps on taking you back to that one person who doesn't love you back. You always get hurt when your expectations are not fulfilled, you keep on trying to evoke the same feelings into the next person's heart, and don't want to give up, despite the closed doors in front of you.

Do not blame yourself for indulging in this, because your heart chooses who it wants to love, never hide your feelings in the fear of getting hurt or losing the one you love.

                      I was born again
                       Because of your 
                        Love,and i  also died 
                         Because of the same 
                             Reason"
                    ~ItumelengMonakhisi

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