BROKEN QUEENS
WOMEN
WHAT DO WE GAIN FROM BREAKING EACH OTHER?
WHAT DO YOU GAIN FROM HATING ON ANOTHER WOMAN?
WHAT DO YOU GAIN FROM LYING ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE
WHAT DO YOU GAIN FROM PAINTING THE BAD IMAGE ABOUT SOMEONE WHO HAS DONE NOTHING TO YOU BUT TO BE KIND?
WHY DO YOU GET SO EXCITED WHEN ANOTHER WOMEN IS IN PAIN?
WHAT'S WRONG WITH US?
The evilness in our hearts really worries me, When will this end? when will we start praising and learning something from the women who are above us? instead of being motivated and taking notes we wanna question everything, evaluate everything do research about another women instead of you researching about bettering your life you busy digging deep about someone trying so hard to bring them down.and when you don't find anything you start being delusional thinking that they are probably doing something privately, that there's no way that a woman can make money from blogging, youtube, promoting products or just a normal 9 to 5 job.
Is this what you think of yourself? are your dreams that dead? are you that slow-minded that the only thing that you think of is how other people are making it and ways to bring them down? why don't you sit down and ask yourself what do I really want in life? why am I so stuck, why do I talk so bad about someone who is just being kind to me?
A woman would come to you and say" I see you doing so well with your life, how do you do it? then you tell them what you do e.g" I have a small online business I design websites for people, or I sell hair, I have a youtube channel or just have a 9 to 5 job and I save my money, that same woman will later go to another woman and tell them that Tumi is full of herself, her lifestyle is too fancy there's no way that she can just make money from a 9 to 5 job, or from a youtube channel, or just writing. sis are you ok?
WOMEN, WHAT'S WRONG WITH US?
when will we stop criticizing each other and just praise one another?
we already living in a cruel world where women are still being mistreated, still being abused, assaulted, still being discriminated, raped, murdered, still told that we not pretty enough, smart enough and yet we still continue to turn against one another.why? we already dealing with a lot of things as women. giving birth, period pains and all the crazy emotions we go through. The sad truth is amongst women there's too much jealousy, hatred, too much criticism and not enough encouragement and support.
all this negativity should stop, I mean I get that not everyone will like you. if you don't like someone cool cut them off and focus on your life, but if you busy bad-mouthing that woman and blocking others from getting to know them, then sis you are a big fan you wanna be that person. and if you really wanna be like them go to them ask them for tips and go back to minding your business, I at some point have been guilty of judging another woman instead of complimenting her.
WE ARE NOT GOING TO GROW AS WOMEN
IF WE THE ONES ALWAYS TEARING EACH OTHER DOWN
WE NEED TO ELIMINATE JEALOUSY
GOSSIPING AND CATTINESS
AND CREATE MORE SUPPORTIVE CULTURE
INSTEAD OF MAKING ENEMIES
~ITUMELENGMONAKHISI
