THE FEAR OF LOOSING YOUR PARTNER 💕

                                     LOVE HURTS 

Do you know  the fear of loosing someone?

Imaging you working on yourself learning to be independent practicing self love then boom you meet someone that sweeps you off your feet. 

You know that unplanned love that end up being soo deep ,the kind of love where your partner ends up being your everything, your friend  your advisor ,your partner in crime and more like a family to you .

The kind of love where you can’t do anything without them or even go a day without talking to them ,that kind of love hurts so much. Especially when you guys start having problems , problems that every couple has, and then you start feeling insecure to the point that you no longer comfortable being alone  you get jealous easily  you start picking stupid fights , you think your partner is cheating on you  and end up loosing your mind.

The kind of love that will make you so insecure and end up entertaining attention from outside  not realising that you only making things worse.

What Causes Insecurities in a Relationship?

Firstly let’s define being  insecure , it means you are not sure about your relationship, not confident about yourself or a certain situation and you are anxious.

Certain situations in a relationship which could be lies , infidelity, lack of trust , not giving you partner the right attention they deserve can lead to one having a deep believe that maybe they are not good enough or pretty enough for you  hence that’s why some people end up loosing it when the get what they are hoping or wishing to get from their partners outside.

Some end up living in a state of fear the fear of loosing your partner ,always worrying about what’s going to happen next ,allowing room for your childhood traumas to step in and make things worse

When  you love someone you don’t want to loose them it  is  normal for  you to feel anxious about the things that has let you to get to having the fear of loosing your partner .

Communication is always helpful in every situation 

OVERCONFIDENCE AND 

NARCISSISM CAN ACTUALLY 

BE THE SIGNS OF DEEP INSECURITIES 

~ITUMELENGMONAKHISI